What should you be doing if your boyfriend doesn’t call you back after you’ve called him? This is a frustrating position for any woman to find herself in and it’s confusing if you don’t know how to handle it. Should you call him back again with the hope that he simply forgot to return your call? Is it better to explain to him that it hurts you when he doesn’t do the things he says he will? You may be surprised to learn that when your boyfriend won’t call, the best thing you can do is nothing.
The reason you should be doing nothing if your boyfriend doesn’t call you back is simple. Many men use the telephone and a woman’s response to phone calls as a way to test her. When a woman becomes irate or overly emotional because a man hasn’t returned her call or he’s waited a few days to call, he’ll label her as dramatic and, at in some cases, even desperate. You may have some concern that if you do nothing, your man will see you as something of a pushover, or he’ll jump to the incorrect conclusion that he can get away with whatever he wants. That’s not the case at all.
If your boyfriend doesn’t call you back it’s likely because he expects you to make the effort to make the call. If you don’t, it demonstrates a few things to him. It shows him that you’re not craving to talk to him and it also shows him that you have better things to do with your time than pursue him. Men actually like this in a woman. Since men want to be the pursuer you’ll capture his interest more if you let him chase you. Don’t call your boyfriend if he hasn’t returned your call. Wait for him to call again, you’ll be glad you did.