Do you use text messages to flirt with guys? Does it work for you? Do you want to learn how to use them to attract men? There’s a lot of good dating advice about how to flirt with guys when you’re face to face with them, but these days, texting is often our primary means of communication. Use text messages the right way and they can be a powerful tool in your arsenal of romantic weapons.
You have to assume that if you’re getting sms’s from a guy regularly, you’ve already got him interested in you. The first thing you need to do is determine just how interested he is. This will determine your strategy. Here are three probable scenarios and the strategies to use in each:
First Date Scenario
You’ve only been on one date, but you get a text msg from the guy first thing in the morning. That’s a great sign, even if he just says something bland like, “Had a grt time.” If the message is something like that, feel free to encourage him with a reply like, “Me 2” with one of those winking smiley faces as your “signature.” To a guy, this is as good as a sexy wink in person, but not too much of a come-on.
Been Dating Awhile Scenario
Things have started to get romantic and you want to take it to the next level and make him fall in love with you. This is when you need to combine flirting with playing hard to get. In this case, you can use text messages to your advantage with careful timing. If he sends you a msg like, “What r u doing?” don’t reply. He’ll start to get nervous and wonder if you’ve lost interest. After awhile, he’ll send you another message. Reply to this one and say, “Sorry, was in the shower. Thinking of you” or something along those lines. That will awaken a million erotic thoughts in his mind.
Hot and Heavy Scenario
This one can either make or break your relationship. If he is already committed to you and you know it, just do what feels right. If he is not, then don’t encourage him too much. If his messages turn you on, act coy and shy, but excited. If they are too suggestive for your taste, then you might want to reconsider your relationship. Either he’s just clumsy, which is forgivable, or he’s a sleaze, which isn’t. Go with your intuition on this one.
These are just a few scenarios you’ll run into with texting. When you use text messages, remember that you’re going to be face-to-face with the guy sooner or later, so don’t say anything in a message that you wouldn’t want to say in person!