How to Meet Visual Kei Fans for Dating? – Support
Hi everyone,
I’m really interested in J-Rock & Visual Kei and would love to meet people who share this passion. Any tips on where to find Vkei lovers for dating? Thanks! ^-^
On JRO Tinder app ~kidding.
i have no idea!
As far as I know, I don’t know any dating mediums where the focus of meeting potential matches is based primarily on musical tastes.
Your best options are probably:
- Use popular dating apps (like hinge or okcupid for example) and list bands you listen to. In my experience, I’ve talked with people from a wider range of personalities on hinge so you might start there. But this very much depends on your region.
I’ve only ever met 1 girl that actually liked metal out of every match I got in the span of 5 years, and she was into stuff like Black Dahlia Murder. So, chances of finding someone really into vkei on that platform is probably even smaller.
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If you meet a potential partner, convert them to vkei. Even if they never get really into themselves, if they listen to it with you and don’t mind it I’d say that’s a huge win.
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I guess you could try and meet people on forums or even any live concerts. But, a) if you get close to someone, it might be difficult to figure out if they’re a compatible partner with you. Meeting someone on the web or in person for just a few hours won’t necessarily give you a good indication of someone’s character, and b) location will play a huge part on whether you may find it worth to invest into a relationship of this nature. I’ve heard of people meeting each other this way, but it rarely works out location being a big part of it.
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My advice to you would be to try and meet someone who you connect with on other aspects first: Emotionally, physically, spritually, culturally, morally, intellectually, etc. And if they’re a good match for you, I think option 2 would be best. If they respect and care for you, they won’t have any issues listening to vkei with you regardless of their level of interest in it.
I can understand wanting to meet a partner with similar niche interests, but you risk cutting off a lot of potential connections that might end up being amazing if your search criteria is narrow. And vkei is one of the most niche interests out there. In my experience anyways.
You’ll always find plenty of platonic fans to discuss vkei bands and music with open arms. So share your passion with us/them! Good luck with your search though. If you ever find a definite answer to your own question do share with us all here.
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never happened here… all my dates said “this music makes me feel crazy and mentally disturbed”
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It ain’t for everyone! And those girls were not for you Delk. You deserve crazier!
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